Reality check ✔️

Every individual lives in their own world, prioritizing their own peace and happiness. Very few people genuinely think about others, setting aside their self-interest. Humans are inherently selfish, but some rare individuals care about the well-being of others and strive for their betterment. What benefit does anyone gain by thinking good for others? Yet, humanity is still alive, and history remembers those who put others before themselves. A person should first serve Allah and then sacrifice for their nation and its people. Only then do we achieve true success. History doesn't remember ordinary people but immortalizes those who dedicate themselves to serving others. True leader of Pakistan 👑 One such great personality in Pakistan is Imran Khan . While leaders like Allama Iqbal and Quaid-e-Azam fought for Pakistan's independence, after their departure, if there’s one person who has consistently worked for Pakistan's welfare, it is Imran Khan . What worldly greed cou...

What is Reality? Face every crucial situation 👀 I’ve named my blog as   REALITY CHECK ✔️,  But what truly is reality?   What constitutes reality, and what is its essence?  How can we define it, and how should we embrace it?   Can understanding and applying reality bring any meaningful changes to our lives? We often perceive reality as   (TRUTH) . While this isn’t wrong, reality goes beyond mere truth; it is a deeper, more profound form of truth. It’s a truth that a person accepts, integrates into their practical life, and reflects upon to understand its importance.  I'm on the right way 👍🏻 Does accepting this truth lead to a life lived in peace and tranquility? Life is full of ups and downs. As Muslims and as humans, we must engage with the truth. Instead of rushing to resolve matters practically, we should approach them calmly. While practicality isn’t inherently wrong, becoming overly practical often distances a person from their abilit...

Happiness belongs to u 🙂 I was thinking about what title I should choose for my blog or what topic to explore. Then I thought about my past and felt sad. But after some reflection, I told myself, " Lubaba , happiness doesn't have to be tied to special occasions, celebrations, or social media posts.  Why are you depending on such things for your joy? " I laughed at myself for being silly and kept laughing for a while. That’s when I realized—happiness doesn’t need a reason. It’s always with us; we just have to find it within ourselves. Happiness isn’t linked to another person or event. Fun of thoughts 🍃                           Isn't it funny?   One moment I was sad thinking about this, and the next, I made fun of my own thoughts and cheered myself up. Honestly, it’s foolish to keep looking for a reason to be happy. But in this silliness, I found my blog topic: "Is Happiness Just a State of Mind?" I may not be ...

                 Meaning of Decision-Making Determine to ur self 🖇️ In some aspects of life, sometimes we become really confused, but we don't take the time to sit calmly and make a decision with ourselves, asking what we should do. We know that whenever we have to select something new, we often get puzzled. However, this is not the right way.  How many times do we actually think carefully about what we are going to choose, or make a wise selection? It should be this way: when a person comes into this practical and mechanical world, they should look at things with an open mind and accept them. But no, we are often followers of trends, always waiting for someone to guide us. We have become so lazy that we don't trust ourselves or use our own judgment anymore. Sometimes, I wonder if one day I will lose my mind thinking about what we are doing. Where are we all heading?  Why don't we use our knowledge in the right way and get caught ...

  Reflection on Life's Struggles and Commitment.        reality ✨ Have you ever sat alone and asked yourself, "Oh child of Adam, why have you entangled yourself in so many difficulties? What necessities have enslaved you? For what reason have you ruined the peace of your life? What is it all for? What is the end of all these efforts?" Why do you chase so many things in this world? Sometimes you strive for your happiness, sometimes for your family, and other times for your children. What will you truly gain from all this? struggle 🤞🏻 If you’re sacrificing for your children, haven’t you seen how other children treat their parents? Do you expect something different from your own? If you’re doing it for your family, which family is this—one that includes your wife and children? Remember, on the Day of Judgment, this very family will turn away from you. So why all the effort? If you’re striving for someone else’s happiness or your own peace, hoping to become...

                      LIFE REALITY 🥀 If we think about moments in life when we are left alone or feel like we have no support, we should also reflect on the times when everything was going well. Back then, we were happy and content.  So why, now that certain things or people are distant, do we feel completely alone? Doesn’t it seem strange to think that just because something or someone is no longer with us, we are left all alone?  Are we truly alone?  Isn't Allah still with us?  Isn't our family still by our side?  WE HAVE TO MAKE A STRONG DECISION 💯 The reality is, human nature is such that we are never satisfied with what we have. We are always hoping for something more, holding expectations from life, and yet, we often overlook the blessings already present. It is crucial to accept reality. My daily readers might wonder what reality I am referring to—it's the reality that must be accepted even in sol...

Accept the reality ⚡ Human beings have significantly lost the ability to think independently. They now prefer to accept everything as pre-made and ready without questioning it. Human beings should focus more on developing their own abilities. Instead of applying someone else's ideas to themselves, they should create their own path. By doing so, their thinking will be broader, and they will be able to understand the true reality of life. Not implementing something on our own and instead adopting pre-made ideas or solutions can lead to harm. When we blindly accept something from the media and share it without thinking, we may face consequences. No idea or concept should be adopted without proper understanding. This harms our own judgment and ego, as it prevents us from thinking critically and making informed decisions. In our society, there are many misconceptions about sustainability, which are distancing people from the truth. Instead of adopting the right approach, they end up fol...

" Sometimes life puts us in difficult situations, but a successful person is the one who faces these challenges and keeps themselves together. It’s not necessary that what we want always comes to us. If you achieve everything you desire, then there’s no hope left for anything, but this too can be fixed to a certain extent. Sometimes a person, even after achieving what they want, doesn't find peace; they are always restless"                 Learning from circumstances Harder u struggle the more u Succeeded 💯 Sometimes, in order to understand life, we have to forget our own self. Life is a very confusing thing; those who understand it no longer have expectations for anything else. Sometimes, the circumstances are such that we no longer wish for anything. Very few people are able to manage themselves while adapting to changing circumstances.                          Learning from peop...

                          Influence of Media As time passes, our lives are becoming increasingly dependent on modern advancements. Today, we need tools, gadgets, or electricity-powered devices for almost everything. With changing times, habits evolve as well. In this age of advanced technology, people rely more on machines than manual effort. It’s true that when one loses the habit of doing things manually, dependence on external resources increases. While depending on technology is acceptable, excessive reliance can be harmful .                     Necessity of Social Media In today's world, social media has become essential for communication, business, and even academic tasks in schools and colleges. From children to youth and elderly people, everyone depends on social networks like WhatsApp, TikTok, Instagram, and Twitter. Using them responsibly is important, but only wi...

                        LIFE REALITY   Sometimes, we make mistakes in understanding the realities of life. A person always prioritizes their own self, no matter the circumstances or relationships they are in. We easily declare someone selfish or mean, but we rarely think about our own selfishness. Why don’t we think about it? Because it’s so easy for us to judge others. We should feel regret about this, but sadly, we don’t. Selfishness of Human 🥀 Now, if you’ve carefully understood my point, you must have wondered why I called a person selfish or mean for their own benefit. Let me answer this for you: ✓ Think about it—everything we do, everything we make someone part of, we do it for our own self. If we keep someone guilty in our home, it’s for our own peace of mind. ✓ When we teach someone, it’s for our own earning. We keep a salary according to our own desires. We demand whatever we want. ✓ And the funny part is, ev...

                   INTROVERT & EXTROVERT  Personality Marks Nature never changes. A person’s nature is formed by the very nature of the universe, which Allah Himself created. When Allah has stated in the Quran that everything is made according to the laws of nature, and that the entire universe operates by following those laws, it implies that every person, action, and thing has two approaches . Positive Approach: The positive approach is about dealing with life’s challenges in a constructive way. When faced with difficulties, one should handle them gracefully and with patience . Negative Thinking and Suffering: When a calamity befalls us, we should act with patience and self-restraint instead of thinking that it's due to magic or misfortune. Negative thoughts can worsen the situation. Introverts : It's good to share our thoughts rather than to hide them and become depressed 😔 An introvert is someone who keeps all emotions and...

                   Hope and Reality   1. The biggest truth of life is that a person should not attach any expectations from anyone. 2. In reality, nothing kills a person; it is the expectations from others that destroy him. 3. To live life peacefully and beautifully, we must learn to live for ourselves. Only then can we be successful. Trust ur guts and do what u want 🕊️ Attaching Expectations on Others: "Placing expectations on anyone is foolishness. When someone doesn't meet our expectations, we feel hurt. The solution is that we must live our life according to our own terms." ✓ It is not necessary to depend on anyone in life. Instead, we must do something for ourselves. Only then will we enjoy the process of living. ✓ A wise person observes everything carefully and takes action accordingly. ✓ The truth about life is quite simple. Life is open in front of us, but we complicate it by experimenting with it. Life is just a piece of ...

The burning issue now a days is related to the suicide, murder,rape and criticism. We can't think towards it's reason we just read an article and passed it beyond it we have to pay attention towards the social criticism. Why we neglect others beyond our selves? Why we consider other feelings zero Infront of our ego? Why we let others to attempt suicide? Where is our humanity? Where is our religious rituals? If any of you have a single answer of my question so this matter will be vanished ✨ Being a human we have to talk to others and give them our time to know about their feelings their life criteria 🕊️ We have to make our selves positive and kind for others 😚 We have to see others problem not by our 1st view rather than by knowing their internal feelings💕 Not every health issue need a pain killer some are just in a need of polite words 💞 Trust me now a days if we began to know about others issue society declare us a bad one or agent 🥲 If we want to help others than there ...

Depression among youth is influenced by multiple factors, often interacting in complex ways. Here are some primary reasons: Depressed soul relax at life's end 🥲 Life is the second name of exams 🥀 1. Social Media Pressure: Constant comparison on social media can lead to feelings of inadequacy, low self-esteem, and loneliness. The pressure to appear perfect often leads to anxiety and depression. 2. Academic Pressure: High expectations from parents, teachers, and society create intense pressure. Constantly aiming for excellence or fearing failure can result in stress and depression. 3. Family Issues: Conflicts at home, divorce, or an unhealthy family environment can affect young people deeply, often leading to emotional distress and depression. 4. Bullying and Peer Pressure: Bullying, whether physical or cyber, is common among youth. The negative effects of bullying are long-lasting and can lead to depression and even suicidal thoughts. 5. Identity and Self-Exploration: Adolescence ...

Nature is everything 💕 Beyond every difficulty peace and determination help us 😀 Being calm and trust is a more powerful weapon 🔪 for every solution ✨