Words vs Reality 📌

December 15, 2024

Well, there's a strange thing that is often misunderstood in our society, and that is when someone tells us the reality, we tend to take it very negatively. This is how it is, after all. Not everyone has the tolerance to hear someone else's words and reflect on them with an open mind. Instead, we often think negatively. Let me share a few things with you all and particularly tell you how accepting reality as it is can be such a fulfilling task.

It's hard to bear when Time Travels ❤️‍🩹

Let me explain it simply:

When we make ourselves too practical, we often become strange in the process. In one way, we either can't tolerate what others say and give a negative response, or we make enemies out of those who speak up. In any case, this is not the definition of wisdom. There’s a big difference between thinking you're smart and proving that you're wise.

There’s a difference in tone, in words, in nature, and a huge difference in relationships. Mentally facing reality and practically confronting it are two completely different things. It's harder to speak up than to tolerate someone. Saying something to someone doesn’t have much effect, but when we have to tolerate it, it becomes really difficult. Then, we start feeling like giving up or even hurting ourselves, which is a bit strange.

Let me tell you why I mentioned both speaking out and tolerating things. Actually, it's not wrong to say that we all can tolerate things, but if someone says it, then we should ask:

Can you really tolerate breaking down?

Can you tolerate losing your love?

Can you bear it when your loved ones go far away?

Can you tolerate becoming poor?

U loose ur Self by loosing ur Loved one 🔥

I don't understand why some people speak without thinking. If they say something without considering how it might affect others.

Why do they get upset when they have to tolerate the consequences?

When we speak without thinking.

Why does it become so hard to handle when faced with the consequences?

If you have the courage to do something, you should also have the strength to face the consequences. Only then will you truly face reality. Only then will you gain wisdom.

I have seen in my own life and others’ lives how people degrade others without thinking about their self-respect. But when time passes, and we come back with all the answers, we realize that we can’t tolerate the response we gave in the past.

We’ve often heard that when you step into practical life, you’ll realize what life really is. But let me ask,

Happiness Starts within ur self 🖇️

Have we ever thought about the true meaning of practical life?

It’s not just about making money, getting married, and building a family. Practical life means facing reality.

Let me ask you:

Is marriage difficult?

Is planning a family difficult?

Is working difficult?

I don’t think any of this is hard. What’s really difficult is accepting reality, and facing the most difficult thing – losing your love. The hardest thing is burying your feelings. The hardest thing is setting your career by first letting go of your own desires. The hardest thing is when you’re entitled to be a priority, but you receive inferiority instead.

We never know when life will end, but this life makes us sacrifice so much that it feels like we're already dead. My hope is that everyone will find the courage to face reality and always stay positive, understanding things no matter what the circumstances. Always trust in yourself and in Allah, and never give up on that trust. I hope that my discussion will make a significant difference in your mentality.